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Your Divorce Action Plan

Save money, Find Hidden Assets, Win Custody, Present a strong case. High conflict experts.

Your Divorce Action Plan

Save money, Find Hidden Assets, Win Custody, Present a strong case. High conflict experts.

Let's make an exit plan - Empowering Change Ahead 2025!

Save the squeaky, office chair formalities, for your lawyer. Let's give them the tools they need to help you settle your case.

Instant PDF Download of your complete Divorce Action Plan Kit: here or "How to Find Hidden Assets" here:

Free help? Contact us to see if you qualify!

Our clients get a lot done in sweatpants and sandals sipping coffee in club chairs. We offer many DIY packages and E-Books to help you jump start the process yourself. Our E-book is your passport to a fresh start!

We met Singer Darius Rucker this past Memorial Day. He wrote the song, "Never Been Over" about his divorce. He said that divorce has taught him that help is there - all he has to do is take it (per CMT.com).

Rucker recently told Apple Music's Today's Country Radio with Kelleigh Bannen that his upbringing and community didn't embrace mental health support.

"You know, being raised the way I was... and in the Black community especially, that's frowned upon a lot, too," said Rucker, who was born and raised in South Carolina. "But I learned that there's a lot of people out there that'll talk to you, that'll help you a lot." This emphasizes the importance of building your team during tough times.

We can even put you in touch with a retired Judge if you need that uncommon level of expertise or a seasoned forensic accountant. Our job as Divorce Coaches is to give you all the tools you need to reach your goals while saving you time, money, and stress.

“You can waste vast amounts of money by hiring the wrong lawyer while engaging in a high conflict divorce." Alec Baldwin

A speedy and easy settlement does not ensure the battles are over. It is not uncommon to spend more time and money AFTER the divorce is final, on post divorce motions, than on the actual cost of the divorce.

The perfect storm for countless post divorce motions starts with clients who want a quick divorce and split everything 50/50. Lawyers love those "amicable" clients. Their premade legal templates are easy to fill in with generic information. You CAN have a speedy and fair settlement with the right team.

Amicable means friendly. Reasonable, means fair. Let's be reasonable when it comes to divorce.

No matter which divorce path you choose, you will still need our insight or ebook.

DIY Divorce
Online Divorce
Mediator
Or legal counsel

We have solutions for the primary wage earner or dependant spouse:

Figure out how to pay for your attorney without credit cards or cash (or help you Pro Se).
Already have a legal bill? We can show you how to reduce that bill.
Safeguard any future child support or alimony.
Tell you what attorneys can and can't do. Show you how you can tell if they use outdated premade legal templates, which can cost you money.
Have your legal team add customized enforceable language to your agreement to prevent post divorce motions (these are NOT found in premade templates).
And understand that splitting everything 50/50 is not reasonable. It is written in your state law under "equitable distribution" to be fair, not even (NJ). Oddly, 'equitable' does not mean equal, it means fair. Yes, you may be entitled to more than half the assets, less of the debts and even keep the house as a "fair" settlement under the law. It's not some savvy business dealings, it's the law. Don't let your attorney, or your adversary lead you to believe everything is split down the middle (they like to do that because it's easier). Attorneys don't charge less for easy cases. They just charge more for complex cases. So let's keep it simple. We can help streamline your case for your attorney.
Avoid leaving money on the table. Yes, you CAN have your ex cut you a check if they cheated on you. Even in "no fault" states like NJ.
Our ebook may be all you need to get a fair and speedy settlement and limit future post divorce motions.
Our Coaches can help you every step of the way.
If you actually want a speedy and fair divorce and avoid post divorce court hearings...call us. We fill in the gaps your attorney can't (or won't).

Our empowering insights and practical steps help you navigate the choppy waters of divorce with confidence.

As Coaches, we are fun and easy going with a relaxed coffee shop approach.

We will share our wit and wisdom,

while helping you hurdle lifes speed bumps,

with grit and grace.

We will tackle the legal and emotional process of divorce and help you, voice your goals to your counsel. Our goal oriented approach ensures you think more logically for productive decision making. This will expedite the process and lead to a fulfilling post divorce life. Our background in Wellness & Career Coaching with help you realize goals, not just create them.

"Step out of the history that is holding you back. Step into the new story you are willing to create" Oprah Winfrey

If you are self represented (Pro Se), we can help you:

navigate the process and court procedures
do a DIY divorce with legal help from licensed attorneys
DIY prenup agreement
supply tools for custody battles and how to win
create parenting schedules
forensic accounting help
find hidden assets
find a meaningful job or start a new business, with all the nuts and bolts of the business framework and where to find affordable new training.
provide evidence based practices, to ease the emotional impact of divorce.
Yes, we can help you if you have to go to trial. That is not common. Mediation is the most cost effective and speedy avenue. Most importantly, we can help you AVOID trial.

Or join our exclusive, members only, Club Lounge!

Finding the right divorce coach

As Coaches, it's game day from our point of view. Our approach is energizing because we set goals, identify roadblocks then strive for the end zone.

We help you create:

Divorce Action Plan
Roadmap: Overview of the process
Plot obstacles
Help with a "digital divorce" (online security)
Find hidden assets
protect your stuff
Detail goals using evidence-based techniques
Supply tools to navigate
Understand the emotional stages
Motivate by not weighing you down with too much at once

Which leads to an empowering resolution.

Therapists are essential when you need to get to the core of personal issues and need advice. Attorneys are great at the legal logistics. But neither fill in the potholes of the divorce process like we do. You are still at the helm and your attorney is only as good, as the tools you supply them. We help you give your counsel the right tools, for an optimal and speedy outcome.

Not ready to speak to anyone...

...then jumpstart the process by downloading our:

Divorce Action Plan Kit
on ETSY - a 5 star shop! * * * * *
This concise guide may be all you need to get you through the divorce process. Even reduce legal fees with our tips! And get your concerns heard, so your attorney can better advocated for you.
Great for asset protection and pre-divorce planning too.
Includes a prenuptial outline in case you need it in the future
A great resource for prenuptial or postnuptial agreements. It lets you see the big picture with topics of conflict to proactively address in a concise order of topics and opens the conversation for better communications.
Join our facebook group too. Get free forms and community support.

Need a forensic accountant? Suspect wasteful spending on an affair or addictions (gambling, drugs)? You CAN get that money back. AND most divorce cases do NOT need a forensic accountant. Our Divorce Action Plan Kit has helpful money saving tips. For forensic accounting help with complex financials, we have that link for you too at our affiliate link: The Divorce Money Guide.

Disclaimer: We scour the internet for helpful resources, so some links may be marked as an affiliate link, where we earn a commision. Visit our Free Resources page for helpful links too.

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"DIVORCE ACTION PLAN KIT" with divorce procedures, forms and guides, and let us help you with an exit plan.

Whether you are contemplating divorce, in the thick of it, or just about to finalize your dissolution of marriage, this essential guide will highlight important information needed now and in the future. (Things attorneys don't tell you, or can't do). We also included tips on how to save on attorney fees!

BONUS!

We enclosed helpful tips in this ACTION PLAN that are often overlooked. Avoid getting stuck with an easy agreement today that may turn into a nightmare and very costly later on. Don't let your adversary hide assets either. Sample custody agreement enclosed too. Find out more:

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Divorce Coaches

From legal fees and financial advice, to therapy and mediation, those going through the awful process of divorce often need expertise or support from several different professionals. Check out our network of professionals here:

As Divorce Coaches we are goal oriented. We supply tools for you to use NOW, to help you reach your future objectives.

Start with us first to save time and money. We are not therapists or attorneys, but will refer our network of specialists, as needed.

As Coaches we help:

demystify the divorce process
help you get the right information to your attorney so your voice is heard
or help you if you don't have an attorney
set short and long term goals on your journey
supply options if you suspect your spouse is filing for divorce
prepare you for court or mediations
manage parenting struggles
encourage healthy co parenting skills
help you improve communications with your Ex, including high conflict cases.
help you build the life you want after divorce, including dating, and career goals.

As with any true team setting, we will cheer for your victories, and validate your concerns. And it sure helps to laugh when we can!

Contact your

Professional Divorce Coach and the network of professionals that cover forensic accounting, therapy and high conflict divorce coaches.

Coach Jen

Active members of the

International Association of Professional Divorce Coaches

Divorce Coach Certificate: Endorsed by members of Shark Tank, the Emmy Award winning show.

Coach Credentials can be found on the

"Meet Your Coach" page.

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Everyone is welcome! We are sensitive to the unique situations our diverse community members may face, in various stages of the divorce process. We work with
all:

races
genders
religious affiliations
LGBTQ communities

Using kids as pawns in divorce so a divorce action plan may help

Our detailed action plan may prevent kids from being used as pawns during the divorce process.

Get started on your customized divorce action plan and download your 'Jumpstart Action Plan', or contact our coaches.

You are on the right path if you found a great divorce attorney who validates your concerns. Don't waste $300 an hour complaining to your attorney, who may not be sympathetic to your concerns. Vent to our coaches (we are a LOT cheaper) so we can weed through the emotions and only deliver pertinent information to your counsel.

Some attorneys end goal is a signed Marital Settlement Agreement and avoid going to trial (because they have never done a trial). It is not uncommon to have your own attorney bully you into a settlement. Our coaches help each step of the way. Our solutions ensure any agreement has your future, as top priority...beyond the dotted line.

With the divorce process behind you, a fresh start in energizing. Your new normal will let you decompress and get back to being the best version of yourself...ever.

Dads and men prefer our streamline roadmap and coaching approach because it is solution oriented. We also have an all men facebook support group, not limited to divorce. Even Singer Darius Rucker, pictured here, highlighted the importance of reaching out for support during his divorce.

Working around your childs schedule in divorce

Putting the children's needs first, in the divorce process is co-parenting. No one prevails with counter-parenting tactics. In fact, those behaviors may suggest one or both parents are toxic, which leads to years of misery for all parties. YOU and your children deserve better.

Let us help you untangle and untie the knot, so you are no longer anchored to your past, and more empowered for your future.

Your Divorce Action Plan

Your Divorce Action Plan